hopelessromanticwill asked: I saw in the pagan tag you have questions about energy chords i know a fair bit about them.
Yes, I would like to know what causes them. I have had three so far with men in my life. Two past lovers are no longer even speaking to me. The new one. It was amazing. As a little back story, I’m polyamorous. I have multiple lovers. They all are great in their own right, but the new person, I have known for a few years and recently decided to give him a try after going through some hardships with an old psychic chord mate. It was the strongest feeling I have felt so far during sex. I felt like I could feel everything he felt, if that makes any sense. It was like a high for me. He felt it too. But in the long run I feel bad because I do not feel this way with my other partners. I know I love this new man. I have for a long time, as a friend. But I wish I could share the connection with my other lovers. I feel so confused. What causes it? Why him? Thanks for your help.